Sometimes Resistance wins

What do you do on the days you are just not feeling it?  The days that Resistance wins?  It’s going to happen from time to time.

Yesterday, I opened the computer and had nothing.  I had a few minutes and couldn’t think of anything.  I did a quick glance through a few books for some highlighted quotes, trying to find something, anything to post.

I had to stop and think for a moment – “Why am I doing this?  Why am I writing anything?”

Why did I want to post yesterday?

I wanted to post because I should post something every day.  But why?  Because Seth Godin does?  But yesterday, I had nothing to say.  Or, I had not allowed myself time to let it come to the surface.  I allowed myself a few moments, and that was it.  How can I expect to have something to say if I don’t take the time?

So, I made a deliberate decision – close the website and just don’t post anything, for that day.

I had been writing a bit throughout the day in my journal, writing down some thoughts and things I have been working through, but I just didn’t give myself the time to get into the right headspace to write something that might contribute to anyone else reading this blog.

Basically, I felt that it would be better to post nothing for a day than to make a shitty post just for the sake of posting something.  Some days I have simply posted quotes that I like.  And some days that’s what I feel is the message I want to contribute that day.  Yesterday, for whatever reason, that felt like a cop-out, so I chose to not post anything.

I think the key is why we are doing something.  My hope is that my writing will connect with somebody out there, or even better, connect with a lot of people.  But that means that I have a responsibility to you to put in my best effort.  If, for whatever reason, I am unable to do that for a day, I would rather post nothing than post something when my heart and mind weren’t completely in it.

There is nothing stopping me from getting back at it today.


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